I'm a queer, Filipinx millennial and full-time artist navigating two relationships: one with a man who was my high school sweetheart that I've been married to since I was 24 and another with a woman I've been close friends with for about six years. I'm experienced in conflict resolution and negotiation; building confidence and self-awareness; and enjoy helping folks sort their thoughts and feelings. Most of my art is based in holding space for exploration and emotion -- especially emerging ideas; goals and identity; and grappling with grief, large and small. I move through the world as a femme-presenting, cis- and straight-passing AFAB who wishes everything could be more gender-neutral. I'm overweight *and* attractive, which has taught me endlessly about how we perceive others and wish to be perceived, especially in terms of how we judge strangers; how "health" is weaponized; and the power of pretty privilege.