"I was the alcoholic who was selfish, self-centered, and whose existence revolved around the next drink. The shame of my past—from blackouts to letting down my family—is something I deeply relate to. That old life is behind me. Through the 12-step process, I've found a new path. Today, I am a respected and reliable member of my community. I'm available to be called upon to help, and I can share how I rebuilt my life and restored relationships with the next generations."