I’m a 35 year old woman that deconstructed from Christianity 10 years ago. Since then, I’ve been on the rollercoaster known as healing. I can share tools in my toolkit, such as stoicism and the power of asking. I will share my experiences in re-learning who I am and what I believe about myself, and how that has tied into my journey of authenticity. I’m able to listen with empathy and offer validation, while also being real with you. If you feel like a black sheep, or like you’re struggling with the grief and cognitive dissonance of losing your religion, I am here for you. If you want to re-create yourself and your life, I can be your sounding board. If you need someone neutral to tell you if you are the asshole, or if you are being gaslit, I’ve got you. Let’s work together on putting on the right kind of armor, and taking off what no longer serves you.