I’m a lesbian mom of two (11 and 9) and a wife. I survived domestic violence in hetero relationships with my kids’ fathers and left everything behind one night to start over. As a single mom, I went from dancing in the nightlife scene to becoming a professional matchmaker, which helped me see myself in a new light after years of being doubted and made to feel small—even by my own family. Dating in the lesbian community with kids was its own challenge, from women who wanted to jump into motherhood right away to those who wanted me but not my children, while also learning how to navigate blended families. I went no-contact with my parents after realizing they violated my trust and didn’t value me beyond money. Through therapy, spiritual guidance, and deep healing, I’ve grown from survival into a place of strength and authenticity. Now I’m creating a life I love, and I want to use my journey—the pain, lessons, and breakthroughs—to help others find their own path.