I’ve dated with my heart wide open—and I’ve also dated with walls up so high, no one could reach me. I’ve fallen fast, I’ve healed slow, and I’ve made choices from both clarity and confusion. Over the years, I’ve learned that dating isn’t just about finding the right person—it’s about staying rooted in who you are while navigating connection, chemistry, and sometimes, disappointment. For a long time, I thought I had to shape-shift to be more likable, more agreeable, less ‘too much.’ But the best relationships I’ve experienced came when I stopped performing and started showing up as my whole self—quirks, scars, dreams and all. Dating can be vulnerable, especially when you’ve been hurt. But it can also be joyful, empowering, and deeply clarifying when you date with intention. Whether you’re newly single, exhausted by the apps, or just trying to figure out what healthy love even looks like for you, I’ve been there. Let’s talk about dating without losing your mind—or your magic.