At 12, my parents divorced, and both quickly began new relationships. I felt angry, scared, and unsettled. Watching them with new partners felt uncomfortable, and I began to distrust them and long for the messy but familiar version of our old family. Things got more complicated when seven step-siblings were added to the mix. Interactions felt awkward and forced—nothing like The Brady Bunch. Holidays changed, parenting styles clashed, and no one seemed to talk openly about what was happening. I was miserable at both my parents' weddings. Over time, though, I grew close to both my step-parents, and some step-sibling relationships evolved into real connections. I’ve since studied blended family dynamics and now help others navigate this complex path. If you’re struggling with a step-parent, stepchild, or step-sibling, I understand the frustration. You’re not alone—we can work together to create something that feels more stable and genuine.