Surviving the emotional fallout after discovering your partner’s affair

Alex H.

I’ve been married for over a decade, but my partner and I have been together for more than 20 years. Therapy has been a huge help in improving our communication and navigating tough times. I also helped a close friend through a painful moment when they discovered their partner’s emotional affair. It was a shock for them, feeling like they weren’t enough, and they were ready to walk away. I encouraged them to take a step back, process their emotions, and focus on what they needed in the relationship. Through open conversations, they were able to understand that the affair was a symptom of deeper issues, not a reflection of their worth. Eventually, they chose to rebuild their trust and work through it together. They’re in a stronger place now.

Reconnecting with yourself

Danielle B.

Hi! I’m a married mom of two—a one-year-old boy and a 16-month-old girl—and my husband and I have been together for nine years, married for six. Becoming a first-time parent during COVID changed everything. It was a time of isolation, uncertainty, and learning how to parent without the typical support systems in place. Since then, I’ve continued growing—both as a mom and as someone trying to find the right tools to support my son’s behavioral challenges. With over 15 years of experience working with children and families, I now help others as a Parent Educator, offering guidance, compassion, and evidence-based tools. I’m also a certified sexologist and sex coach, passionate about helping people feel empowered, connected, and informed in every aspect of their lives. Whether you’re trying to navigate toddlerhood, balance your relationship, or reconnect with your own identity, I’m here to support you with honesty and care.

Navigating asexuality in a sexual world

Eli M.

For most of my life, I assumed I was bisexual because that’s what made sense based on how I was raised to think about attraction. But something never quite clicked. I didn’t feel desire the way others described it, and I often felt broken or left out in conversations about sex. Eventually, I realized I’m asexual—and suddenly, a lot of things made sense. I’ve experienced relationships where my lack of interest in sex was misunderstood, dismissed, or even used against me. It was isolating, especially as someone who is trans and neurodivergent, because I already felt like I had to explain myself constantly. But I’ve also had beautiful, affirming connections—queer-platonic relationships, deep friendships, and forms of intimacy that had nothing to do with sex. These experiences helped me embrace that intimacy can look different for everyone and that I deserve connection that honors who I am. Now, I support others who are discovering their asexual identity, figuring out what intimacy means to them, and navigating relationships in a world that often centers sex as the default.

Finding purpose after surviving domestic and/or sexual trauma

Jillian W.

After surviving domestic violence, I knew I needed to rebuild my life with intention. The pain and confusion I experienced pushed me to find a career that would not only heal me but also help others heal. I found support through people who believed in me, and that made all the difference. Motivated by my own experiences, I pursued a path in sex education and relationship coaching, and eventually earned my doctorate. Over the past 13 years, I’ve worked with individuals and organizations around the world, helping people reconnect with their passion, purpose, and pleasure. My journey taught me that rebuilding after trauma is not just possible—it can lead to a life richer and more fulfilling than you imagined. I'm here to offer real, respectful support as you find your way forward too.

Wanting intimacy as a neurodivergent person when relationship ‘rules’ don’t fit

Katy W.

I know what it’s like to want connection but feel like the usual relationship “rules” just don’t work for your brain or your life. I’ve navigated everything from open relationships to heartbreak, queerness to complicated family dynamics, and the constant push-pull between wanting to belong and wanting to be real. If you’re neurodivergent, autistic, ADHD, whatever flavor, you’re probably used to masking, managing other people’s expectations, and feeling like relationships just…aren’t built for how your brain works. You deserve relationships that fit you, not ones that fit everyone else’s mold. Let’s talk honestly about what actually works, what doesn’t, and how to build connections (romantic or not) that are safe, fulfilling, and true to who you are. No shame, no judgment..just real talk and real support. I'm safe, affirming of all types of relationships.

Navigating miscommunication and building stronger connections in relationships

Lia S.

Throughout my life, I’ve experienced deeply loving romantic relationships that, while wonderful, just weren’t the right fit for me. Each experience taught me valuable lessons about love, self-awareness, and, most importantly, communication. In my current relationship, things didn’t start off smoothly—there was a miscommunication about what we each wanted, which led to a big blow-up and a breakup. However, we found our way back to each other and worked hard to improve our communication, increase transparency, and make sure we were on the same page. Through this journey, I’ve learned what works, what doesn’t, and how to create stronger, healthier relationships. Now, I’m studying to become a certified interpersonal relationship coach so I can help others navigate their own challenges in love and connection, helping them build meaningful, lasting relationships.

Healing from emotional abuse and embracing sexual well-being

Malesha G.

After being in an emotionally abusive relationship, I found myself lost, questioning my worth, and struggling with the idea of love and intimacy. Therapy became my safe space, where I slowly began to untangle the years of hurt and learn how to communicate with myself in a healthier way. But what really shifted for me was diving into sex coaching. It wasn't just about understanding sexuality, it was about reclaiming my body, my desires, and my sense of empowerment. The more I learned, the more passionate I became about helping others do the same. I now guide individuals and couples in building deeper connections, whether it’s about sexual health, intimacy, or rediscovering themselves after trauma. It’s not always easy, but through patience, self-awareness, and open communication, I’ve seen firsthand how transformational healing can be. Now, I want to help others break through their own barriers, just like I did, and find freedom in their relationships, both with others and themselves.

Navigating stress and balancing relationships

Nicole D.

I’ve spent much of my life juggling multiple roles—educator, author, and caregiver—and I’ve learned how easy it is to become overwhelmed by the weight of it all. Several years ago, I met a wonderful man, and that relationship taught me a lot about emotional intimacy. But as someone prone to overworking, my stress levels spiraled, triggering depression at times. Balancing my career with my responsibilities as a parent, while also dealing with my own mental health, was tough. There were moments when I felt completely drained, and as the strong friend, I had a hard time asking for help. The truth was, I needed someone to listen to me, but I was often the one holding space for others. I spent a lot of time reflecting and healing from this cycle. One of my most profound realizations was the importance of creating emotional space in relationships—not just for others but for myself, too.

Maintaining a strong marriage while struggling with parenting

Shezada H.

I’ve been married for 13 years and together with my husband for 15, and while we’ve faced our share of challenges, one of our greatest strengths is our commitment to open communication and quality time together. Parenting two boys, one on the cusp of adolescence, has been both a joy and a challenge. I’ve struggled with things like postpartum depression, balancing discipline with bonding, and often dealing with mom guilt. But through counseling and a lot of self-reflection, I’ve learned how to set boundaries, actively listen, and prioritize my mental health, which has transformed my relationships at home. My husband and I have worked through building trust, intimacy, and resolving conflicts, and I’m passionate about helping others do the same. I’ve even co-hosted relationship goals groups with my husband to help couples strengthen their connection. I’m now pursuing a degree in clinical mental health counseling, and I would love to share what I’ve learned about balancing marriage and parenting while maintaining strong, supportive connections.