I didn’t know I was nonbinary until my 20s. I knew something felt off for a long time—I just didn’t have the language, support, or permission to really ask the questions. It wasn’t until my 30s that I began to feel truly comfortable in my gender and find peace in the fluid, shifting nature of who I am. That’s why I offer this space—for older adults who are just starting to explore their gender, or who have been quietly questioning for years. You might be in your 40s, 60s, or beyond. You might be coming out later in life, or wondering if you need to come out at all. You might feel completely alone in this process. You’re not. In the years I’ve spent doing this work, I’ve supported people of all ages—including folks twice my age—as they navigated their own gender journeys. Whether you're feeling confused, afraid, relieved, lit up, or all of the above, you’re welcome here. There’s no timeline for self-discovery, no age limit on becoming more yourself. We can talk through the big questi