Hello, I am here to help you with relationship difficulties!
For myself, I have largely healed my relationship with my mother, among other relationships. With my mother, it was quite difficult for most of my life, with conflict and arguments, and I avoided her much of the time. This was especially painful because this meant also avoiding my father. But I have been able to shift my responses and behavior in ways that improve our interactions and have even resulted in a loving relationship.
I have also had several bosses who were extremely difficult for me to deal with. There was conflict there as well, although more subdued, and this impeded my ability to grow in my job. But I have healed those relationships as well, and most of them ultimately became very warm relationships or even friendships.
I feel confident in my ability to handle difficult people and difficult relationships because of these experiences. This has made it easier for me to help others, including my friends and relatives when issues come up for them.
Most relationship problems generally come down to the same core issues, so what I’ve learned is applicable to many situations.