When I became a mom, I had big ideas about what family life would look like. But life had other plans. I stayed in a relationship much longer than I should have, believing that keeping the family together was the best thing for my kids. Deep down I knew something was wrong, but I compartmentalized it, telling myself it would be worse if I left. We eventually survived domestic violence, family court, and involvement with the Department of Children and Families. Leaving was just the beginning; I had to grieve the loss of the partnership I had fought so hard for, while also carrying guilt and shame for not getting my kids out sooner. It took time to rebuild trust in myself, focus on my children's healing, and create a new kind of family where we could truly thrive. Today, my kids and I are stronger, more honest, and more connected because of everything we overcame together. I would love to be a support for anyone navigating parenting after leaving a difficult situation.