Realizing alcohol was quietly ruining my life

Brian L.

For most of my life, drinking felt normal, almost expected. I started in high school to fit in, and over time, alcohol became part of how I handled everything: celebrations, stress, boredom, even sadness. On the surface, things looked good. I had a career, friends, and stayed busy. But beneath all of that, alcohol was slowly chipping away at my happiness, my relationships, and my mental health. I dealt with regular anxiety, depression, run-ins with the law, and a growing sense of emptiness I couldn’t ignore. The worst part was how easy it was to justify because so many people around me were doing the same thing. It wasn’t until I really took a hard look at how I felt day-to-day — mentally, emotionally, physically — that I realized alcohol was not harmless. It was holding me back from being the person, partner, and future parent I wanted to be. Choosing sobriety wasn’t easy, but it was the best decision I’ve ever made. If you’re questioning your relationship with alcohol, you’re not alone and it’s never too late to take back your life.

An unexpected job loss

Jessica B.

I had worked with the same company for 25 years. The Owner decided to retire and close the company. Suddenly, I realized my future where I thought I would continue working until retiring was closing the doors. I had been with this company since I was in my 20s. What am I going to do? How can I restart? I have no idea. Anxiety and stress consumed me. All day I only thought about the "what's next" and "starting over". It had been years since I went to school or learned anything knew. The world was more advanced than I was and how could I catch up? I was not sleeping. I was having physical symptoms from the stress. I had been the breadwinner of my family, how can I let them down? The guilt of not continuing to promote myself through the years and the fact that I had put all my eggs in one basket was heavy. It was a heavy burden to carry around and carrying it alone wanted to make me give up. How can I reinvent myself? What if no company wants me? Financially, I was watching the money in the accounts get smaller and smaller. I didn't just want a paycheck, but a career. Ever step forward, felt like a step back. I had a good career, high up in the company and now to start over is scary, isolating, insignificant, ashamed.

Recovery rebuilding after I burned it all down

Kari K.

My recovery didn't start with a mountaintop moment. It started with shame, silence, and finally saying, "I can't do this alone." I'll share how I faced the fear of starting over, found community, and learned to laugh again - even when nothing felt funny. Recovery is messy and holy and real. Let's talk about it.

Starting over after a breakup in your 30s

Katie P.

After years of dating in New York City, including two serious relationships and countless app encounters, I found myself back in the suburbs at nearly 36. I was single and surrounded by silence instead of city buzz. The pandemic had forced a massive reset, and suddenly I was navigating breakups, loneliness, and the challenge of dating from scratch. I know what it’s like to wonder, “Am I too late?” or “How do I even begin again?” At times, it felt like everyone else was moving forward while I was stuck in place. But through therapy, honest conversations with friends, and a lot of trial and error, I rebuilt my confidence and redefined what love and companionship meant to me. I also leaned into helping others—friends who were struggling with divorce or unhealthy relationships, women who were unsure about starting over later in life. I’ve walked the path of heartbreak and rebuilding, and I’d love to be there for anyone who feels like they’re standing at the edge of what comes next.

Losing the thread of who you are and figuring out how to find it again.

Katy W.

I've restarted more than I can count: education, career, marriage and divorce, new dreams and new places. I've gone through tough periods of not knowing where to turn, poverty, disability, grief and parenting. Somehow I have managed to build a life that looks like mine. Not perfect. It's got a little edge. But...it's mine. This came from the lessons I learned trying to earn my worth through productivity, perfection and trying to be the person everyone else needed. The burnout came and I unraveled, which is what I needed. I know what it's like to feel behind, broken and wondering if you'll ever want anything again. Let me meet you there and hold a light next to you. You got this.

Navigating mental health and building healthier relationships

Kaycee S.

At 20 years old, I’ve already faced my share of challenges—and found strength through them. Earlier this year, I completed nine months of intensive mental health treatment, working hard to manage Borderline Personality Disorder and the impact it had on my relationships. Through therapy, support groups, and self-reflection, I learned how to build healthier habits and more positive, meaningful connections. Those experiences inspired me to pursue a future in counseling. While currently working as a substitute teacher, I’m preparing to begin studies in the field. I know how isolating mental health struggles can feel, and I’m passionate about helping others feel supported, seen, and empowered on their own journeys.

Rediscovering your true self and finding your career path

Sami C.

When I graduated from college, I had big dreams but didn’t have a clear idea of how to turn them into a career. I spent years in various jobs, unsure of where I truly belonged, but I kept going because I thought “this was what I was supposed to do.” It wasn’t until I embraced my passions, trusted my instincts, and leaned into my faith that I realized my career wasn’t just a job—it was a calling. I spent time in the TV industry, as a writer, and even as a tennis pro, but I never felt fully fulfilled until I began teaching, coaching, and sharing my story. I know what it feels like to wonder if the dreams you have are even possible, or if you’re just wasting time in the wrong role. But I also know that when you get clear on your purpose and take intentional steps, doors open in ways you didn’t expect. Whether you're about to graduate and need direction, considering a career change, or simply wanting a fresh start in a new season of life, I’d love to help you get clear on your path and discover a future that feels exciting and aligned with your true self.